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"What Really Makes You Tick?" 10 questions you should ask to yourself: a preparation to self-improvement.
"What Really Makes You Tick?" 10 questions you should ask to yourself: a preparation to self-improvement By Frank Parker.
Be all you can be, that's all you can do! Many people often see themselves as somewhat contented with their lives the way things are, but of course it's hard to think of anything else when there are real issues to be discussed in the world. Sure life isn't perfect but it is how you allow yourself to see it that counts.
I am one of those people who aspire for something deeper and more meaningful in life rather than letting life itself beat me!
So we're all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn't even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as kids should continue to live within us as we grow older, we should hold on to the hopes and dreams, it's what keeps us going. They say you can't teach an old dog new tricks… or can they? Let's ask those 10 questions and see!
1. What do I really want?
The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.
Find something that you are good at can help realise that small step towards improvement. Diligence is the key to know that it is worth it.
2. Should I really change?
Today's generation has taken another level of redefining 'self', or at least that's what the kids are saying. Being a single parent since 1994, and now a proud father of two teenagers myself, I have learned that there are far worse things that they could have had than spots or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle?
If history has taught us one thing, it's the life that we have gone through. Lead by example, let them learn from your mistakes and let them know that they are not loved any less for theirs! See things through their eyes. Not only does this help you understand them (you was young yourself once remember!) it also helps you keep young at heart too.
3. What's the bright side in all of this?
With so much is happening around us there seem to be no room for even considering that light at the end of the tunnel. We can still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny. And if it's a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes the world go round!
4. Am I comfortable with what I'm doing?
There's always the easy way and the right way when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes, or bag, shirt and whatnot. It doesn't take a genius to know you are your own person, or else we'll all be equally the same in everything we do. I have always taught my kids the following saying, "No one is better than you, you are better than no one, you are unique!" Variety is the spice of life and it brings in very interesting and exciting questions to be answered.
5. Have I done enough for myself?
Have you, or is there something more you want to do? Discontentment in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts you'll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing. As like anything you want, never say never!
6. Am I happy at where I am today?
It's an unfair question so let it be an answer! For example you love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, so take it up a notch! Your kids will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life! Don't rush in and burn yourself out though, give it an extra 1% effort
tomorrow and see what difference that makes. Does it feel good? Cool, then do the same the next day after and so on. We can all only do our best and it's the trying that counts rather than not trying at all.
7. Am I appealing to the opposite sex?
So maybe I don't have an answer to that, but that doesn't mean I can't try it, though. Whether you shape-up, change the way you wear your clothes or hair, or even your attitude towards people, you should always remember it will always be for your own benefit. I know it is a clique but there are plenty more fish in the sea and if a relationship doesn't work out then remember everything happens for a reason. It is down to Karma and what is meant to be will be. Don't look for it to happen and I am sure it will when you least expect it!
8. How much could I have?
I suppose in this case there is no such things on having things too much or too little, but it's more on how badly you really need it. If you like to have the finer things in life, or the latest gadgets (I know I do!), or even lots of money you have to ask yourself how much are you willing to work for it? There is nothing wrong with wanting to better yourself, I think that is human nature, and as a parent I want my kids to have more too, but you can't change what you haven't got by dwelling on it.
9. What motivates me?
What motivates you? It's an answer you have to find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but to choose one of them may be the hardest part. It's not like you can't have one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that's it. Just try it piece by piece.
10. What Really Makes You Tick?
So? What really makes you tick? You can be just about anything you always wanted to be, but to realise that attaining something may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it's something that you really want. There is no failure in trying and at the end of the day you will feel glad that you did and helped your inner peace grow. You are a very special person so spread that feeling all around you and to the ones you love and care for. Just believe in yourself, and together, second by second, minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day, month by month and year by year we will all make this world a better place to live in.
Be all you can be, that's all you can do! Many people often see themselves as somewhat contented with their lives the way things are, but of course it's hard to think of anything else when there are real issues to be discussed in the world. Sure life isn't perfect but it is how you allow yourself to see it that counts.
I am one of those people who aspire for something deeper and more meaningful in life rather than letting life itself beat me!
So we're all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn't even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as kids should continue to live within us as we grow older, we should hold on to the hopes and dreams, it's what keeps us going. They say you can't teach an old dog new tricks… or can they? Let's ask those 10 questions and see!
1. What do I really want?
The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.
Find something that you are good at can help realise that small step towards improvement. Diligence is the key to know that it is worth it.
2. Should I really change?
Today's generation has taken another level of redefining 'self', or at least that's what the kids are saying. Being a single parent since 1994, and now a proud father of two teenagers myself, I have learned that there are far worse things that they could have had than spots or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle?
If history has taught us one thing, it's the life that we have gone through. Lead by example, let them learn from your mistakes and let them know that they are not loved any less for theirs! See things through their eyes. Not only does this help you understand them (you was young yourself once remember!) it also helps you keep young at heart too.
3. What's the bright side in all of this?
With so much is happening around us there seem to be no room for even considering that light at the end of the tunnel. We can still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny. And if it's a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes the world go round!
4. Am I comfortable with what I'm doing?
There's always the easy way and the right way when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes, or bag, shirt and whatnot. It doesn't take a genius to know you are your own person, or else we'll all be equally the same in everything we do. I have always taught my kids the following saying, "No one is better than you, you are better than no one, you are unique!" Variety is the spice of life and it brings in very interesting and exciting questions to be answered.
5. Have I done enough for myself?
Have you, or is there something more you want to do? Discontentment in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts you'll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing. As like anything you want, never say never!
6. Am I happy at where I am today?
It's an unfair question so let it be an answer! For example you love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, so take it up a notch! Your kids will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life! Don't rush in and burn yourself out though, give it an extra 1% effort
tomorrow and see what difference that makes. Does it feel good? Cool, then do the same the next day after and so on. We can all only do our best and it's the trying that counts rather than not trying at all.
7. Am I appealing to the opposite sex?
So maybe I don't have an answer to that, but that doesn't mean I can't try it, though. Whether you shape-up, change the way you wear your clothes or hair, or even your attitude towards people, you should always remember it will always be for your own benefit. I know it is a clique but there are plenty more fish in the sea and if a relationship doesn't work out then remember everything happens for a reason. It is down to Karma and what is meant to be will be. Don't look for it to happen and I am sure it will when you least expect it!
8. How much could I have?
I suppose in this case there is no such things on having things too much or too little, but it's more on how badly you really need it. If you like to have the finer things in life, or the latest gadgets (I know I do!), or even lots of money you have to ask yourself how much are you willing to work for it? There is nothing wrong with wanting to better yourself, I think that is human nature, and as a parent I want my kids to have more too, but you can't change what you haven't got by dwelling on it.
9. What motivates me?
What motivates you? It's an answer you have to find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but to choose one of them may be the hardest part. It's not like you can't have one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that's it. Just try it piece by piece.
10. What Really Makes You Tick?
So? What really makes you tick? You can be just about anything you always wanted to be, but to realise that attaining something may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it's something that you really want. There is no failure in trying and at the end of the day you will feel glad that you did and helped your inner peace grow. You are a very special person so spread that feeling all around you and to the ones you love and care for. Just believe in yourself, and together, second by second, minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day, month by month and year by year we will all make this world a better place to live in.
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